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Thank you, volunteers

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As National Volunteer Week wraps up tomorrow, let me just say a big huge THANK YOU to all the volunteers who contribute time, energy, expertise, enthusiasm, and finances, to the ministry of Wives of Faith. To see a list of WOF volunteers, click here and scroll down through the list.

Thank you to my team of writers–past, present, and future. Nothing you have written has ever gone unread, and nothing was ever written in vain.

Philippians 1:3 in The Message says,

Every time you cross my mind, I break out in exclamations of thanks to God.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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How to Encourage a Military Wife

We all know that being a military wife is hard.  The struggles we face can many times lead us to feel discouraged.  But it is so easy to encourage another military wife.  Your small act of genuine support and encouragement can go a long way in the life of the military wife that is struggling.  And, indeed, what military wife isn’t struggling in some way?

But how exactly can we show support to one another?  What does it look like to encourage each other?  Below are four simple and tangible suggestions to encourage a fellow military wife.

  1. Pray for the military wife.  Then let her know that you’re praying for her.  I have never come across someone (a believer or not) that has not appreciated being prayed for.  To know that someone else is interceding in prayer for you is a powerful thing!
  2. Foster existing friendships with military wives.  If you’re already friends, keep nurturing that friendship.  Get together with her, call her, or send an email, text, Facebook message, or snail mail.  Any of these small acts is sure to bring a smile to her face!
  3. Foster potential friendships with new military wives.  If you are just getting to know someone, put time into that potential friendship.  Be the welcoming military wife that you were blessed enough to experience at a duty station or the welcoming military wife that you wished was at a duty station.
  4. Sincerely offer to help another military wife.  Try to stay away from the “let me know if you need anything” line and offer more specific help.  The trick is to offer that help in such a way that the independent military wife will have a harder time saying no—When can I watch your kids so you can have an afternoon out?  I just baked you some cookies; when can I bring them to you?

I challenge each of you to reach out and encourage at least one other military wife in the next week.  Any of these simple suggestions is sure to bring a smile—to her and you!  And who couldn’t use another smile in her life?

 

 

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Welcome New CareBlast Team Leaders

We are so happy to announce two fabulous Wives of Faith ladies are now leading our CareBlast Team: Meghan Sireci and Leanne Hunley!

Meghan Sireci is the new CareBlast Coordinator. She lives, serves, and studies, in Yorktown, VA with her husband, Jonathan. Her days are made up of morning kisses, hot coffee, occasional exercise, chores of a housewife, loads of studying, and evenings cherishing every moment with her honey. Falling in love with her Air Force husband was the most wonderful and most frightening event in her life. And she lives every day thankful for a God who helps her with her role as a military wife. The benefits far outweigh the costs because she LOVES that man!!

Meghan is studying to receive her Masters in Social Work and greatly enjoys the opportunity she have to pursue her dream career. She prays daily for grace and wisdom to live this life in a way that truly honors her Creator. You can find Meghan on Facebook, Twitter @mfsireci, and her blog  http://smallgifts-biglove.tumblr.com/

 

Leanne Hunley is the CareBlast Assistant Coordinator. Leanne’s husband is in the Kentucky National Guard preparing for a deployment in the fall. He works at PNC Bank as his civilian job. They are the proud parents of a beautiful one-year-old daughter, Raelynn.

Leanne works in Mental Health as Clinical Support part time and her passion is helping people. She is also attending Northern Kentucky University part time. She says she mostly enjoys spending time with my daughter Raelynn, but she also enjoys photography, reading, & music. The Hunleys attend Crossroads Church near Cincinnati, Ohio.

Learn more about our CareBlast Ministry at Wives of Faith.

To nominate someone for CareBlast, click here.

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MemberCare Help

Hello Wives of Faith!

I am posting this in the hopes that I will be able to get a little bit of help from you. As the MemberCare Director for Wives of Faith, I (along with everyone on the Leadership Team) are constantly brainstorming aboout how we can better serve you, our members. So, I thought to myself, who better to ask that question of than you, the members of Wives of Faith. If you could, just take a few moments and answer any or all of these questions for me, that would be greatly appreciated. You can answer in a comment below, or if your prefer, you can email me personally at jessicac@wivesoffaith.org

Here are the questions:

1. What does it mean to be a member of Wives of Faith?

2. What are the benefits of being a Wives of Faith member?

3. Are you familiar with our ministries? (Survival Sisters, online bible studies, CareBlast, newslettter, Coups for Troops, Tour of Duty Live)

4. What are we leaving out that we should be doing?

Your answers help us plan ahead and be able to better minister to and encourage military spouses.

Thank you!
Jessica

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Bandwidth or Armwidth?

Call me a geek, but I love modern communication.  Email, texts, Facebook messages and other social media apps can make life so much easier in so many ways.  Lately, however, I have experienced some of the less than positive consequences of having technology at my fingertips.

When I had to go hunt down an encyclopedia, there were facts that I did not take the time to uncover, questions that I left unanswered.  But when the internet is available on my handy dandy little cell phone, I can quickly find more information that my brain can often process.  Sometimes this constant onslaught of information sends my brain into overload, one of those less than positive situations.

Due to technology, I now send more people birthday wishes in a week than I normally would have sent in a month.  Fifteen years ago, my connection with people who lived out of state would have been limited by my long distance budget, but now it is not unusual for me to exchange text messages with multiple states before lunchtime. There are friends I pray for that I have met through military wife websites that I have never actually met in person.  These relationships are ones that I treasure, but my heart finds itself needing something more.

Though not an expert in social media, I think Paul might have some answers for my concerns about modern communication’s impact in my life.

Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another – and all the more as you see the Day approaching.   Hebrews 10:25 (NIV-1984)

Meeting together.  These days, I very possibly know almost as many military wives through the internet as I do in person.  However, the internet will never be able to give me a hug, or wipe a tear from my eye.  Inherent in my human condition is the need to be connected to each other.  So maybe there are times that I need to be less focused on something that carries a bandwidth and start using my arm width to embrace another military wife.

If you are local to the greater Washington, D. C. area, expanding arm width is what we are all about with a new ministry, sponsored by Immanuel Bible Church, called Hearts Apart.  We will be gathering for monthly meetings of dinner, encouragement, guest speakers and a time to connect with other military wives.  As an added bonus, our first speaker on September 27th will be Sara Horn!  If you have always wanted to hear Sara in person and meet her, this is your opportunity.  We also plan to be practicing some of that arm width stuff!  If you would like to join us, check out link below for more information and free registration.

http://www.immanuelbible.net/index.php/women/hearts-apart.html

If you are not local to D.C., may I encourage you today?  Put away the social media for a little while and find another woman with whom you can share some arm width today.  It will bless you – and her- in ways bandwidth never can.

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