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I’m Mobile! (Pt. 3)

A couple of weeks ago, Connor discovered that Mommy left a couple cabinets unlocked. Oh the discoveries! Tupperware, pots, and pans, oh my! He pulled them out and banged them on the floor, the shelves–each other. He giggled and growled, and smiled like none other. The little joys of babies/toddlers in the kitchen. He has so much fun–and it keeps him occupied when I’m busy–that I don’t even care about cleaning up several times a day.

This week, we’re in the kitchen with our health/safety inspection. There are several potential dangers, but nothing that smart parenting can’t handle.

KITCHEN

Okay, before I get into safety devices, let me first say that the kitchen is not a place for baby, or even toddlers, if you’re not in there—esp if you have something in the oven/on the stove/on the counter/etc. So, if possible, keep a gate up or some other way of keeping them out. Many of the tools sold in stores would be unnecessary if we keep the babies out.

For instance, stove locks, knob locks, and range top shields are completely unnecessary. Um…if I’m cooking, no one, not even my 5-year-old is allowed near the stove. (Well, my 5-year-old is sometimes when I’m cooking with her specifically…but I still don’t leave her there if I step away) If my son starts to insist on playing around the stove, then he goes in his Exersaucer or highchair.

I mentioned refrigerator locks in my last post…not necessary unless toddlers start insisting on breaking in. And of course, cabinet locks and wall plugs are definite assets.

Here might be a good place to mention baby knee pads. I didn’t even know they made these until today! I might go out and get them just to try them out. At first, I was like why would you need these for babies? Then it occurred to me that crawling can be quite hard on the knees. I don’t think it’s really an issue if you have carpet (except maybe to protect against possible rug burn?), but if you have wood floors like we do—this probably isn’t a bad idea. Not a necessity, but an added comfort for baby.

What a joy to be on top of protecting and loving our kids. Next week, we’ll discuss bedrooms and bathrooms. Until then, rest in the knowledge that no matter what, God loves you and your child. May He bless you greatly over the coming week!

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I’m Mobile! (Pt. 2)

As I was preparing for the next installment of child proofing our homes, I decided to go to several different websites to see what was offered out there that I hadn’t heard of, and let me tell you, I think that the “professionals” are trying to make it so we don’t ever have to watch our kids. Seriously. I mean, in what world would you let your baby wonder around on a balcony without you RIGHT THERE? Yet, they make a mesh cover for balconies so there’s no chance of a baby squeezing through wide-spaced rails and falling.

I digress, I know that all this safety stuff is supposed to make us feel like our homes are more child friendly—which I’m all for. But when it gets to the point where it forces us into paranoia or in the opposite direction to belief that baby doesn’t need constant supervision—that’s where the problems come in.

So, to continue with the dos and don’ts of baby-proofing, I’m going to break it down by room. Today I’ll talk about the living room, and in future installments we’ll discuss the kitchen, bedrooms and bathrooms. Then we’ll round out the series with cars/outdoors.

LIVING ROOM

The two biggest worries in the living room are corners and outlets. Of course, after last week’s post, we already have plugs in all outlets that are not in use. A note about the ones with cords: it’s a good idea to have as little of the cords in view of baby. Tuck them behind furniture, or buy those cord protector covers/organizers.

Many, many new parents are worried about their babies falling and hitting their head on the edge/corner of the coffee table/end table/fireplace. Now, while I wouldn’t completely dismiss this concern, I will say that all three of my kids have done this and none of them have suffered more than a mild headache…even when they were running and slammed into the corner of the table.

So, would I suggest investing in edge/corner guards? Let’s put it this way, I would completely understand getting covers for the corners of the tables as they tend to be hurt more because they are pointed and put all pressure on what spot when babies fall into them. The edge guards, though, I think are a little bit of overkill. Yes, baby will hit and cry for a minute—but he’ll do that anyway. Biggest difference is a bigger bruise without the guard.

One that you might find handy in just about any room is window blind cord wind-ups. These nifty little devices help to shorten those strings out of baby’s reach. Now, there is a slight safety issue here that is small. Personally, I like them because they keep baby from messing up the blinds.

Two more items that you may see throughout the house are for doors: Door Knob Covers and Finger Protectors. Obviously, you don’t need door knob covers for babies as they aren’t tall enough/strong enough to open doors—but once they hit toddlerhood . . . We used them with our toddlers and, I don’t know if it was the kind we got or what, but they didn’t work. It looked like they should, but my kids figured out they could hang on the door and twist the knob. We got rid of them after a couple of weeks and instead taught the girls to stay out of closets and other rooms.

The Finger Protectors device is one of those things I discovered while surfing the store websites today. I’m not sure how the one I saw works, exactly, but I think it’s probably one of those “unnecessary” devices. It’s supposed to keep a door from completely opening/shutting, thus preventing any fingers from getting squished.

The last one is the TV and DVD shields. These aren’t so much for baby’s safety as for our convenience. Last week, I would have said they were probably a nice extra, but not necessary. However, this week, my son has been all about playing with the DVD player because of the flashing lights. I think I’ll be going out to get one of these for us this week.

Next week, we’ll explore the kitchen! Remember, safety for our babies is important, but it is also common sense. Investing a couple hundred dollars in extra safety devices is not a substitute for good, old-fashioned baby-watching.

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Watch Out–I’m Mobile! (Pt. 1)

The time has come. We’ve enjoyed the last several months of cuddling and sleeping off and on throughout the day. We’ve relished in the ability to lay baby on the floor or in a swing while we change out the laundry, cook dinner, or whatever else we may need to do. But no more.

Baby. Is. Mobile.

When we first moved to Hawaii, my baby could not quite sit up by himself. Over the course of two months, he can not only sit by himself, but he can crawl, and pull himself up on furniture, and shuffle around holding onto a push toy or one of the girls’ chairs.  And the other day—he took his first step. *sniff, sniff*

I know, they grow up so fast!

Well, two months ago, we didn’t have a house—only a hotel room while we waited for housing on post. However, that didn’t mean there was any less baby-proofing to do. Now that he can get around—and faster than me sometimes—we must prepare!

One thing I’ve always worried about—how much is too much? How much is not enough? It is ingrained in our heads from moment we find out we’re pregnant that we must baby-proof our homes. And there are SO many items out there to help us out, some for issues that I didn’t even consider a problem.

Personally, I think a lot of the stuff available to us is just that—stuff. We do need to take steps to make our home a safer place for our bundle of joy, but honestly, we can’t prevent every little mishap that may or may not happen. If we worry ourselves to death about what baby MIGHT do, we’ll only serve to put ourselves in an early grave.

So, what precautions are necessary? Which ones are a waste of time/money?

First, I’m sure we’ll all agree that socket plugs are a definite necessity. Wall outlets are right at baby’s height, easy to see—easy to reach. The first thing my son did when we toured our new house? He went straight for the outlets. All of them.

I’m also a big fan of cabinet locks for the bathrooms (if you keep stuff under there besides towels) and the kitchen. The key with these, though, is finding the right one that works for you. I’ve used three types: the Y-shaped lock, the slide lock, and the kind you actually screw into the insides of the cabinet and it clicks together. The last is my favorite, though I haven’t been brave enough to use them on the cabinets in military housing. Of the other two, we use the Y-shaped because I think it holds better.

The lock for the toilet is one that I put on my waste of money list. If you’re keeping the bathroom door closed, there’s no reason that you have to worry about the toilet. By the time the child is able to open the door, they should be old enough to be taught not to play in the toilet. And come on, how inconvenient is it to fidget with the lock when you really gotta go?

The refrigerator lock is one that I would get only if it became a problem. With my first two, I didn’t have a problem with them getting into the fridge the first few years. It wasn’t until my oldest one was strong enough (age almost 4) to pull it open that they got in it. It took a little discipline, but that didn’t go on for very long.

Gates are a definite asset! I’ve got climbers…three of them. If it weren’t for the gate, my son would already be making his way up the stairs, just like the girls. The gates help me keep my peace of mind when I can’t keep my baby from going into a room (one with no door). Of course, gates aren’t always convenient, especially if you have older pre-k’s. We recently bought one of those gates that opens like, well, a gate. I thought it was a brilliant way to have a gate up, but let the girls go up to their room. However, we quickly scrapped that particular gate because it was too hard for the girls to open.

My head is already spinning with all the crazy stuff out there to spark ideas of what could happen to my kid. I don’t want this post to go on and on, though, so I’m going to break it up into two or three separate posts. Until next week, let me leave you with this thought. You are a good parent. God blessed you with a precious child and He is going to help you be the best you can be. Don’t forget to lean on Him when the worry takes over!

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He Has Shown Kindness

“He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” Acts 14:17

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Baby Development 1-4 Months

Due to some health issues while carrying my first child, the doctors induced labor five weeks early. I don’t think there is anything scarier for a mother than to wonder what effects something like prematurity will have on their precious newborn. When I brought her home, I did more than my share of cuddling and watching.

As we approached the first month, the “what if” questions started to get to me. I scoured the internet for hints as to where my baby should be. Was she behind? Was she ahead? Was there anything I needed to be looking for? Like almost any mother, I compared my child’s advancement to that of other babies her age.

Of course, like most doctors will tell you, there is really not much to worry about. Children develop at different rates. Some faster, some slower. Some will be right on target in one area, but be a little ahead/behind in another. The gray areas are vast, and a lot more has to be put into consideration before assuming something might be wrong.

Still, we’re mothers. We worry. It’s in our job description.

So, I thought I’d give you a brief overview of the first four months. Remember, just because your baby is three months and doesn’t hold his head steady yet, doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong.

1 Month:

Most Kids: Lifts head when lying on stomach, Responds to sounds, Stares at faces

Some Kids: Follow objects briefly with eyes, Oohs and Aahs, Can see black and white patterns

2 Months:

Most Kids: Smiles at the sound of your voice, Gurgles and coos, Follows objects, Notices hands, Holds head up briefly

Some Kids: Smile, Laugh, Hold head up at 45-degree angle, Smoother movements

3 Months:

Most Kids: Recognizes your face and scent, Holds head steady, Tracks moving objects

Some Kids: Squeals, gurgles, coos, Blow bubbles, Recognizes your voice, Does mini push-up

4 Months:

Most Kids: Smiles, laughs, tries to imitate sounds, Can bear weight on legs, coos when you talk to him

Some Kids: Can grasp a toy, roll over from tummy to back

(These developmental steps came mostly from WebMD.)

See? There’s no need to worry. Even with my second baby, and now my third, I still worry a bit. These guidelines keep those emotions in check. God made our children. No matter their circumstances, no matter where they are on the chart, they are perfectly perfect. Isn’t that the best thing they can be?

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