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Making the Most of Every Opportunity

“Be very careful, then, how you live
-not as unwise but as wise,
Making the most of every opportunity
Because the days are evil.”

Ephesians 5:15-16 Read More→

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An Inspiring Extreme Home Makeover

I recently had the opportunity to preview the season premiere of ABC’s award-winning hit series Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, premiering this Sunday night, September 25 (check your local listings for time).

For those who might not be familiar with this show: Each week Ty Pennington and his team of highly trained and compassionate professionals help make a family’s dream come true. They remodel, they revamp, and sometimes they rebuild from scratch, a home or a space in a home for a family in need. (And it never fails to make me cry!)

For this season’s premiere episode, the EMHE team joins forces with First Lady Michelle Obama and the Joining Forces initiative she shares with Dr. Jill Biden to encourage Americans to give back to military families.  First Lady Michelle Obama makes a special appearance on this show, and she and the show are highlighting a former Navy Chaplain, Barbara Marshall, who is fighting to end homelessness among her fellow female veterans. As she says, her goal is “to help women veterans get back in the game of life.” She’s an amazing woman with a hands-on ministry to women veterans who find themselves in need.

From the beginning of the show to the end, the immense support for this project begins with the show’s design team, and expands to include veterans, active duty military personnel and their families, community support–and yes, our First Lady as well.

But wait…there’s more! One segment of the show is hosted by Sears, as a part of their Heroes at Home program, and they held a job expo to help female veterans hone their resumes and identify how their military skills and training would work in the civilian workforce. I sure hope this type of thing will continue nationwide. Now that I am teaching adults, many of whom are either retired or near the end of their military careers, I can see how valuable this assistance truly is.

 

 

 

 

 

One overarching theme of this episode was stated by Mrs. Obama herself: service doesn’t end with a tour of duty; it continues on for a lifetime. Barbara Marshall is one of many who saw a need that she could meet, and she met it right where she lived. You, as Wives of Faith, do the same thing every day: in your homes, in your installations and spouse support groups, in your churches and chapels, in your communities.  And yes, even online here at Wives of Faith, we support you and encourage you–and even connect you where you live, so you can support each other. That’s what the body of Christ is all about.

Thank you, Wives of Faith, for all you do.

I highly recommend watching this inspiring episode, because I am only giving you a small glimpse into the whole experience. Get ready to laugh at the show’s trademark humor, but be sure to have your tissues handy as well!

To learn more about Barbara Marshall’s ministry at Jubilee House, you can visit their website.

And here’s a preview of the show:

Other links:
DOD news article about Barbara
DOD article about the project
WOF staffer Jessica’s review on her blog
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Special thanks to Different Drummer Productions for the opportunity for a “sneak peek” of one of the most positive shows on television today. God bless you!

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Faith Deployed…Again Contributor: Leeana Tankersley

1.  How did you get started writing?

I started writing when I was a child. My parents went through a difficult divorce when I was nine, and I still have poetry that I wrote during that time. I think I just turned to writing as a way to bring the confusion of my inside world, out. I guess I have always used writing that way: a way to process and make some sense of my inner world. I also found that the great writing of others became a companion to me over the years, and I wanted to provide that kind of companionship — through words — to others.

2.  What are you favorite Bible verses as they apply to the military wife/lifestyle?

My favorite Scripture, currently, is Ecclesiastes 3:1-11. This passage has helped me make some sense of life, especially during those times when life has seemed senseless.

“There is a time for everything, a season for every activity under the heavens . . . He has made all things beautiful in its time . . . and yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.”

As a military wife, I often find myself facing situations that don’t seem “beautiful” on first pass, and I need these kinds of reminders that God is, in fact, at work in the world and in my life, making things beautiful in his own way and in his own time. I also appreciate that it says, “no one can fathom what God has done,” because these words validate my feelings of restlessness and unease. Where are you, God, and what are you doing? This passage reminds me that I may not fully understand the mystery of God, yet he is still beauty-making all around me. Wow. I feel like I need to be reminded of that every single day.

3.  What suggestions would you give to the military wife who would like to minister to or support other military wives?

Getting involved in established blogs that reach out to military wives and/or starting your own blog can be an immediate way to encourage other wives. I have also seen small groups — based on mutual vulnerability, confidentiality, and authenticity — be an incredibly powerful force of validation and support. Perhaps starting a small group could be a great way to get to know some women and just begin sharing your stories. I find small groups can be especially helpful if women are able to share courageously what’s really going on for them and then create a safe space for others to do so as well.

4.  What has been your favorite assignment (duty station)?

We are currently stationed in the Middle East, and we were also here 8 years ago (you can read about that entire adventure in my book Found Art: Discovering Beauty in Foreign Places), and I truly love being here. The transition out here this time, with our two-year-old twins in tow, was nothing short of gnarly, but we are getting our feet under us, and I feel so thankful that we have the opportunity to share such a unique experience as a family.

5.  What is something you wish others knew about you?  (This can be a totally random fact, like you like to wear glitter toenail polish, or you like frozen blueberries in your oatmeal, or you would like to go rock climbing one day?)

I am a closet artist, and I love providing space for other women to explore creative expression. Also, I love sour candy, watching football, and champagne (not necessarily together, though). :)

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Born and raised in San Diego, Leeana holds English degrees from Liberty University and West Virginia University.  In 2003 Leeana married Steve, an active duty Navy SEAL.  They spent their first year marriage stationed in Bahrain, an experience she recorded in her first book: Found Art: Discovering Beauty in Foreign Places (Zondervan 2009).  In addition to writing and speaking, Leeana offers Found Art workshops and retreats that create space for self-reflection and self-expression.  In 2008, Leeana and Steve welcomed boy/girl twins, Luke Stephen and Lane Watkins.  Follow Leeana at GypsyInk.com.

 

(Writer bio courtesy of Faith Deployed…Again)

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Faith Deployed…Again Contributor: Bettina Dowell

  1. How did you get started writing?

Writing has been one of the biggest surprise gifts God has given me.  I was the child in school who groaned the loudest when the teacher said, “It’s time for creative writing.”  I frequently asked teachers who wanted essays if I could just give a speech.  Seriously, it was an activity I absolutely dreaded.

God had begun to teach me about processing some of my walk with Him on paper when we were transferred to D.C.  Removed from the amazing close relationships of other sisters in Christ that I had in Orlando, I began writing thoughts down and sharing them with about a dozen women through email which eventually led to the creation of my blog.  When Rob received orders to Iraq the weekend he was working on his retirement paperwork, I sought out internet sources for military wife support and found Wives of Faith. Sara invited me to write for WoF, which led to me meeting Jocelyn via email, which led to me writing for the Faith Deployed blog and then contributing to Faith Deployed Again.  I just love how God’s paths are rarely straight lines!

2.  What are you favorite Bible verses as they apply to the military wife/lifestyle?

2 Corinthians 12:10b   For when I am weak, then I am strong.

This is such a tough concept for us as military wives, but so very liberating.

3.  What suggestions would you give to the military wife who would like to minister to or support other military wives?

Bloom where you are planted.  Share your heart with God and ask Him for opportunities.  Do not look just for large, visible avenues.  Ministry is simply being Jesus with skin to someone else.  A meal, offering to babysit, cleaning house for someone, even just a smile – these acts of service can open doors for the gospel.

4.  What has been your favorite assignment (duty station)?

Orlando – hands down.  When my husband transferred from active duty to reserves with a fulltime DoD job, we were able to plant ourselves for several years.  We raised our babies with sand between their toes, so the memories of palm trees and warm winters make me smile.

5.  What is something you wish others knew about you?  (This can be a totally random fact, like you like to wear glitter toenail polish, or you like frozen blueberries in your oatmeal, or you would like to go rock climbing one day?)

This summer I got to fulfill one of my bucket list dreams – driving in Manhattan!  My husband would not even ride with me, but I was so excited that I took pictures of myself with my cell phone camera.

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As a military wife for more than twenty-nine years, Bettina treasures the opportunity to serve military spouses.  In 2010 she and her husband, Rob, celebrated both his homecoming from Iraq, and his retirement from the Navy.  They have two sons and a daughter-in-law pursuing artistic careers in Los Angeles and a high school daughter (Libby-Bettina’s co-writer on “Gimmes for Teens”) at home with them outside Washington, D.C.  Bettina is a speaker, and a contributing blogger at faithdeployed.com and wivesoffaith.org and enjoys writing on her own blog at simplestoriestimelesstruths.blogspot.com.

 

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Faith Deployed…Again Contributor: Angela Caban

1.  How did you get started writing?

In 2009 I was laid off of my fulltime employment and wanted to use the free time to help other military spouses who were feeling as lost as I was. When my husband deployed, because we were National Guard, we had very little resources available to us. I had the goal to share my experiences and perhaps offer encouragement to those who needed it.

2. What are you favorite Bible verses as they apply to the military wife/lifestyle?

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4: 6-7

3.  What suggestions would you give to the military wife who would like to minister to or support other military wives?

Don’t give up on reaching out to others, there will be times when you feel like no one is listening and you are fighting a losing battle. There are many out there that need to hear the positive and encouraging words of what God has done for you and your family.

4.  What has been your favorite assignment (duty station)?

As a National Guard family we have not had the pleasure of moving around as many have so although we have moved we live off base. I do however enjoy meeting new people regardless if they are military or not. It is amazing to see how many civilian families support and stand by you during a time you need it the most.

5.  What is something you wish others knew about you?  (This can be a totally random fact, like you like to wear glitter toenail polish, or you like frozen blueberries in your oatmeal, or you would like to go rock climbing one day?)

Well most people don’t know that I went to school to become a chef. Food is something that I have always been passionate about, it excites me to cook new and different things and then share it with the people I love the most. One dream that although did not fully come true, I can still use my skills as a hobby and keep my family very happy.

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Angela Caban is a freelance writer and military columnist.  Her husband, Vincent, has been in the Army for more than thirteen years and was deployed in 2008; he was one of the many soldiers impacted by the unprecedented activation of the National Guard.  In 2010,  Angela launched the Homefront United Network (homefrontunited.com), a military spouse and family support website offering support through positive encouragement.  She is a key volunteer for the National Military Family Association and Operation Homefront.  She and Vincent have one son, and currently reside in Pennsylvania.  For more on Angela visit angelacaban.com or email her at angela@angelacaban.com.

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